Meet Kirsten Cheong, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist

and Certified Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician


Stop being afraid to make mistakes.

I’ve got your back.

Anxiety therapist narcissistic abuse treatment clinician

I work with anxious women who worry about upsetting others. From perfectionistic people-pleasers to women struggling with a narcissistic parent, I’m invested in you.


On the outside, you look composed. On the inside, you’re anxious about how people will perceive you. You’ve learned to put everyone’s needs ahead of yours. You don’t want to be seen as selfish...but the anxiety, fear, and resentment is too heavy a burden to hold anymore.
You may have been taught early in life how to take care of others, to not be a problem, to not draw attention to yourself, to not be too loud, to not be bad, and to not be too sensitive. 
I help women like you learn how to put themselves first.

Balance and Boundaries Therapy Can Help!

I can help you learn to trust yourself

I’ve helped hundreds of women just like you. Therapy can be your space to say the things you wouldn’t dare say out loud. I can handle your true thoughts and feelings and I can teach you what to do with them. 

Being raised by narcissistic parents can create a lot of fear, codependency, and barriers to feeling like a confident and worthy person. My certification as a Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician and 9 years of working with women like you has given me the knowledge and tools to pass along to you. 

Freedom, confidence, and worthiness are one call away.

I am certified to help with your unique brand of anxiety. With over 40 hours of training and 9 years of clinical experience, I am prepared and equipped with knowledge and tools to help you.

Specializing in

  • Anxiety

    Learn where anxiety came from and how to manage it. From general anxiety to relationship trauma, learn how to control of your life by processing trauma and utilizing tools that work.

  • Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents

    Being raised by a narcissistic parent is a trauma. People-pleasing and perfectionism are coping mechanisms to stay safe from enraging a controlling and jealous narcissist mother/father.

  • Online EMDR Therapy

    A Michelin Star of trauma therapy, EMDR heals your brain from the fallout of relationship trauma. Great for those raised by narcissistic parents or struggling with people-pleasing behavior.